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How To Be A Disability Ally?

How to be a disability ally

Something that we are asked frequently as an organisation working with families and individuals impacted by Autism, Down Syndrome and other developmental disabilities is how people can become better disability allies. While well-meaning, this term ‘ally’ holds a lot of confusion for people who want to speak up and advocate for this issue.

So, who is an ally? An ally is someone who supports a cause by learning more about it, speaking about it at the right forums and instances and most importantly, someone who shifts the spotlight on to those who are marginalised, under-represented or not heard or overlooked.

As per India’s latest statistics from the 2011 Census, 2.2% of the Indian population has a disability. In our country, there is not only so much of a need for allies but also many opportunities. If you are someone who cares deeply about disabilities (including any type of disability – physical or developmental or intellectual), this list is for you.

Here are some tips from the Nayi Disha team on how to be a better ally –

READ UP

First off, you need to know more about the disabilities you want to be an ally for. Read on what the medical and legal definitions are, what the current laws allow, what the policies around disabilities in the country are and what are the current issues the community is dealing with. Only when you make an effort to involve yourself deeply can you speak well in support.

SHARE THE STAGE

Whenever you have the opportunity to share the stage or shift the spotlight on someone with a disability, take every opportunity to do so. You should never claim to speak on the behalf of those who are disabled and encourage authentic voices and conversations from inside the community.

BE INCLUSIVE AND PUSH FOR IT

As an ally, you will be part of situations where you encounter infrastructure, conversations, public policies, cultural trends that may be exclusionary. As an ally, it is your responsibility to not only speak up and push for inclusivity – it can be a push for better representation, inclusive laws and better dialogue and debate around issues. As an ally, lead such conversations and initiatives whenever you can.

SHOW UP IN ANY WAY

While it is difficult to be always physically present for everything, find your own way to amplify voices of people with disabilities – show up in your own way. This can by promoting events, talks, discussions – it can be connecting right people in your network, it can be amplifying messages in your network or any other way you like.

Most importantly, know that you will make mistakes. There will be a learning curve. But like all great things, being an ally for people with disabilities can be one of the most rewarding things you do.

If you have questions about Autism, Down Syndrome, ADHD, or other intellectual disabilities, or have concerns about developmental delays in a child, the Nayi Disha team is here to help. For any questions or queries, please contact our FREE Helpline at 844-844-8996. You can call or what’s app us. Our counselors speak different languages including English, Hindi, Malayalam, Gujarati, Marathi, Telugu, and Bengali. 

DISCLAIMER: Please note that this article is for information purposes only.

“Love on the Spectrum”

Love on the spectrum

“Love on the Spectrum” is a U.S reality show that features seven individuals who have autism. The main focus of the show is to educate people about autism and the way these individuals interact with society — not just their journey to find love, but everything that comes with that. Love on the Spectrum highlights each characters perspectives on family, relationships and life itself.

Love is a beautiful thing. It can bind two people together in a bond that makes them feel more special than each of their own selves. The seven featured characters of the show also share the same concerns and long for understanding, loving partners, who will accept them as they are.

 The show exposes the viewers to fascinating details about autism and how people with the condition are treated. The fact that all of the characters have a form of autism makes them highly relatable, even though they have their own problems. Their struggles, strengths and general outlook on life makes this show a great source of information and support for those who have never met people with autism before.

This series is the perfect example for the kind of production Indian media should make. It should realize its responsibility to come up with such content that will help people understand the spectrum better and make them more accepting towards people with autism.

Watch the show on Netflix .

Also check our article on 5 books with autistic characters.

If you have questions about Autism, Down Syndrome, ADHD, or other intellectual disabilities, or have concerns about developmental delays in a child, the Nayi Disha team is here to help. For any questions or queries, please contact our FREE Helpline at 844-844-8996. You can call or what’s app us. Our counselors speak different languages including English, Hindi, Malayalam, Gujarati, Marathi, Telugu, and Bengali. 

DISCLAIMER: Please note that this article is for information purposes only.

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